Social problems like poverty and drug addiction are just some of the family related problems that need family care and attention. Family members like your kids requires full attention not only when they are still in there infant stages but most especially when they reach there teenage period and try to explore the communal life outside our home. In these period, youth are likely to socialize with its neighborhood to find friends, play there chosen games and sports and most of the time mingle with different people.

Through these social interactions, sometimes these young people cannot prevent the fad among group of people particularly the young ones to test and engage in different social activities like the use of prohibited drugs. In order to be “in” among the teenagers, drug addition becomes a part of there social life that affects not only the family but also the community.

There are lots of Drug Rehab in California that offers sorts of interventions for drug addiction but none of them have match the way California Drug Rehabilitation helped and cared its patients to the fullest of their recovery.

Drug addiction is not a one time treatment that can easily be break in a few months. It needs a person to person interventions and close monitoring to help drug-dependents to cope up and rebuild themselves again from their previous drug addiction so that not only the mind that is healed but both the body and spirit.

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Q:The first time I felt the urge for sex, I used “fingering” and found it exciting. Now it has become a habit. However, I never experienced bleeding. Is this normal? Have I lost my virginity?

I want to stop this habit. “Nandidiri na ako sa aking sarili” (I feel so Dirty). Memorizing Bible passages doesn’t seem to help.

A:Virginity “is a state or quality of not having experienced any sexual intercourse. “However, virginity is a lot more than an intact hymen. Strenuous activities may stretch or rupture a girl’s hymen, but this does not necessarily mean that she has lost her virginity.

In fingering, it depends upon how deep the finger penetration had been. See a trusted doctor for check-up. For your peace of mind.

Normally, teenage girls go through this stage. However, it this has become a habit, it’s not normal anymore.

Habits are hard to break. But “you have no obligations whatsoever to your old nature to do what it begs you to do. For it through the power of the Holy Spirit you crush it and its evil deeds, you live” (Romans 8:12, 13, Living Bible).

God understands your guilty feelings. Talk to Him. The result of your determination to cut off the habit may not be immediate, but His help is sure.

To make time meaningful, it must be positive or quality time.

Every minute that you spend with your child is significant. You’re on stage, so to speak, influencing them by your words and behavior—whether you want to or not.

Listen a moment. The “scene” is talking lace next door. (Or is it?)

“Lisa, breakfast’s ready. Quit your dilly-dallying, and come right now.”

Silence.

“Lisa, if you don’t come this minute, I’m going to give you a spanking you’ll never forget.”

Lisa wanders in slowly with her shoes in her hand.

“Cant you ever come when you’re first called? You’re going to make me late for my meeting, and it’s all going to be your fault. Why do you have your shoes in your hands? Shoes are to be put on your feet.”

“Hungry. Drink your milk.” Silence. “I said drink your milk, not spill it all over the table. How can you be so clumsy?”

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Q:

I’m 21, he’s 30. We’ve been steady the past three years. He promised marriage, but after two years pa daw. Will I wait?

However, I’ve never been introduced to his family. He also has a child with a woman who works at a big department store in Pangasinan. I confronted him about it. He made a confession, asked forgiveness, and suggested that we get the child. I refused.

We engage in premarital sex. For protection, I use contraceptive pills. I told him to get me pregnant, but he said it’s not the right time yet. Does this mean he does not love me?

A:

Be thankful your boyfriend refused to get you pregnant. And this is not just mere question of whether he loves you or not.

Remember, he got another girl pregnant, but did not marry her. We’d never know what unfulfilled promises he also made to that girl. You wouldn’t like that to happen to you. Would you? And he’s right-the only right and legal time for you to get pregnant is after marriage.

Now with premarital sex. God intended sex to be enjoyed within the context of marriage. Most men today still want to marry virgins who are not “soiled” or “secondhand goods.” Psychologists believe boys still classify girls as bad or good depending on their virginity. And with the now-rampant AIDS disease, who knows you’d be the next victim? When you sleep with a man, you may be actually sleeping with his previous sexual partners.

Learn to say No! Before you get pregnant. Using contraceptive pills is not 100 percent safe. The best contraceptive against pregnancy is abstinence.

Is he worth the wait? You should first make clear your doubts:

Why does he not introduce you to his family? What are his plans for his child? Are you sure he really loves you and will marry you in two years’ time?

If you find it difficult to resolve you problem, look up to God and claim this promise, “You [God] are my refuge and shield, and your promises are my only source of hope” (Psalm 119:114, Living Bible).

Young children shouldn’t use more than the recommended “pea-size” amount of toothpaste, and they shouldn’t swallow it. While fluoride is important in protecting teeth, the large amounts found in toothpaste, if swallowed frequently, can discolor permanent tooth enamel. Children are more likely to swallow toothpastes flavored to appeal them.

As we all know, studying at school can cause stress and depression to students. Because of overwhelming tasks to do, their body experiences fatigue and is vulnerable to diseases. Some students sacrifice the time to eat their meals on time only to accomplish their tasks. Because of this, some of them gets ulcer. Others don’t mind whether it is raining or not. They expose their selves to intense heat or to pouring rain and thus become prone to sickness. So for all of students, graduation day will be the day when tiring and exhausting days will become over and that it is the day for harvesting the fruits of your hardships.

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Should you worry if your children consume drinks containing caffeine? There are no established guidelines on caffeine consumption for children, says a Baylor College of Medicine professor. But on a pound–for-pound basis, 40-pound child drinking one 12-ounce cola a day is consuming about as much caffeine as a 150-pound adult drinking two cups of coffee. Caffeine stimulates the central nervous system and in adults causes nervousness, irritability, insomnia, and disturbances of heart rate and rhythm. Iced coffees and soft drinks are popular children. Children’s Nutrition research Center.

Even with preventive measures, accidents can always happen inside our homes. The threat of thefts and other bad elements is also always there. It is an imperative for us to be sure that our family is safe even when we are away working. Crime rates are at all time high nowadays so the need for reliable home security system calls us to be proactive.

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Given incorrectly, drugs may be ineffective or harmful. Parents should fully understand a particular drug, what it will do, what reactions to look for, when doses should be given, and the consequences of missing a dose.

Always check over-the-counter (OTC) drugs for product tampering. Read labels. No OTC should be given to children under two years old without a doctor’s permission. Follow doctor’s recommendation for dosage.

Right dosage given at the right time for OTC and prescription drugs is very important as reactions and overdosing can occur. Read measuring instruments carefully. These include syringes, droppers, cylindrical dosing spoon and dosage cup. Remove the cap from oral and hypodermic syringes if using them for oral medication administration.

Your kitchen may be sparklingly clean but that does not mean you are safe from disease-causing microorganisms. Microbiologists from the University of Arizona found out that salmonella and staphylococcus, the most common causes of food-borne diseases in the US, are present in dirty dishcloths that are used in wiping kitchen tops where uncooked meats were previously placed. These dirty dishcloths are then used elsewhere, spreading pathogens everywhere in the kitchen.

To stop this, people should clean their dishcloths with hot water before using them again.